A lot of couples break up when they know that they will have to survive a long distance relationship. In most of the cases, these breakups and separations occur because people are afraid of the idea of living alone and far from one another. Well, this thought and this fear are quite justified that when you love someone, you want them around you no matter what but on the other hand breaking up or divorcing one another is not an option. In fact, if you genuinely love each other, you will know that breaking up is not what you should opt for instead you both can together figure out ways to make that long distance relationship work.
You see being in a relationship is one of the most beautiful feelings of the world. Having someone by your side to share the sadness and love is necessary for everyone, everyone needs a soulmate at some part of their life and if you are someone who has his soulmate at the moment then consider yourself lucky. You can open any relationship book, and you will never see any writer telling you to break up if you are in a long-distance relationship. On the other hand, if you talk to your family or friends for advice then most of them will tell you what possibly could go wrong with your long distance relation, there will only be a few people who will give you sincere tips on how you can make things work even if you both are apart.
Today in this article we are also going to jot down a few tips that can help you with your relationship. So, take notes of what we are going to tell you and make sure you follow these tips properly.
1-Don’t communicate excessively
Excessive communication is the cause of problems when you are in a long distance relationship, you will start getting tired of loving each other, and sometimes you will get frustrated too on being so far from one another. So, remember the rule that less is more, and you don’t have to talk 12 hours to keep the love alive. You can talk on and off or for a little time every day, and that will keep things working for both of you.
2-Manage your expectations
Again, don’t expect the other person to talk to you all the time or tell you about every single detail of every single second. Know that no one can behave exactly, in the same way, every single day and there are going to be mood swings and tough job days so yes, you’ve got to set some limits to your expectations. To learn how to control your expectations you can even read long distance relationship books and know how all of it is done.
3-Enjoy your time
You don’t have to keep thinking about what the other person is doing. Know and have faith in your love. Stay busy with friends, party hard and do whatever makes you happy, just know that you don’t have to cross the lines or cheat on the other person. Being happy and enjoying your time is not something bad. In fact, you should also give this space to the other person and let him live freely for a little while so that he or she can realize your worth. Being together for 24/7 won’t be healthy for your relationship.
These are the three major tips that you should always keep in mind to keep your relationship going even when you are apart. Follow these tips, and you will see how things get easier with time.
